Rules

Entering Bellatrix's high-protocol environment for the first time can feel intimidating. We have an exceptional team of hosts and House Dommes who can assist and guide you if you wish.

High-Protocol Etiquette for Submissives

  1. Always be polite. Courtesy is a sign of respect.
  2. Submissives or slaves must never insist, harass, or confront Dommes in a disrespectful way. Anyone doing so will be immediately removed from the event.
  3. Good manners are highly valued and show your willingness to serve meaningfully and efficiently. Examples include holding doors for Dommes, letting them pass first, helping find a seat, or assisting with coats.
  4. Show respect by never invading a Domme's personal space.
  5. Dommes have priority when choosing seats. Submissives and slaves may sit or kneel on the floor, and kneeling mats are available throughout the venue.
  6. If a Domme is seated, you should kneel whenever possible.
  7. If you wish to play, ask respectfully. If you are not having success, speak to a House Domme, who can guide you in the right direction.
  8. This event does not allow any sexual activity or nudity.
  9. If you are a submissive or slave and someone you do not know orders you to do something that makes you uncomfortable or feels wrong, you have the right to refuse politely.
  10. Remember: Bellatrix is not a guaranteed-play event. If guaranteed play is your goal, we suggest attending with a professional Domme.